Why You Can’t Get Over Someone You Never Dated

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

You can’t get over them because you can’t take no for an answer and you’re used to having the upper hand all the time. You won’t sleep at night until you get exactly what you want, no matter what price you have to pay. Part of you is still convinced that you can be with this person and that if you keep trying, they will end up falling in love with you and you will have the upper hand again.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

You can’t get over them because you believe that timing wasn’t on your side and that you both weren’t ready and you think that when the time is right, this connection can be revived and even successful. You do not accept failure, especially in relationships, because you always find solutions to any problem, even the most complicated ones.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

You can’t get over them because you watch too many romantic comedies and your life is like a movie. You love the drama and the thrill of one-sided relationships, and you believe in ‘plot twists’ that can turn your love life around, and suddenly your person will come back declaring their undying love for you. You always have hope even in the most hopeless situations.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

You can’t get over them because they touched your heart and you can’t get over that feeling. It’s not something you experience often and it’s not something you can easily forget. You’re romanticizing the few moments you had together, and you believe that all you need is a proper chance and this can turn into something wonderful.

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

You can’t get over them because your ego is too big to accept rejection. You do not quit easily and you don’t really give up on what you want unless you have tried it all, so you’re probably still in this person’s life as a friend or as a colleague and you’re hanging around because you believe that you will be able to win their heart eventually.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

You can’t get over them because you feel like you haven’t done your part in this connection. You blame yourself for not telling that person what they meant to you when you had the chance and you didn’t make them feel wanted. Your guilt is what’s keeping you stuck thinking that you ruined a good connection by being too calculated and reserved.

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

You can’t get over them because you can’t truly walk away and you don’t mind being friends with someone you have feelings for. You’re still available and there for them when they need you which makes it harder to move on completely when you always see them and talk to them.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

You can’t get over them because they gave you a taste of your own medicine. You’re normally the unattainable one and the one who’s not ready for commitment, so when you tasted the bitterness of falling for someone unavailable, it got to you more than others because you’re not used to being the one chasing or pursuing others when they’re unsure.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

You can’t get over them because you can’t forget that one time you opened up to each other on top of a mountain or that camping trip you took together. You cherish those quality times and good moments too much to pretend like they didn’t happen. They meant a lot to you and you didn’t take that connection lightly, and that’s why you’re struggling to accept that it didn’t mean as much to the other person.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

You can’t get over them because you believed they were ‘the one.’ You’re stubborn and when you believe something, it’s hard to change your mind so if you believed that this person was the one for you. It may take you more time to refrain from this idea because your intuition and gut never lie and you know that your feelings for this person are realistic and valid.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

You can’t get over them because you were too guarded when they were in your life. You felt like fear held you back from truly giving this person what they needed and you’re a firm believer in second chances. That’s why you’re constantly stuck between taking a risk and telling them what they truly meant to you or letting them go and playing it safe.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

You can’t get over them because you can’t find a deeper connection. You keep replaying the heartfelt and passionate conversations you had and you keep reading your old chats and they still make your heart skip a beat. You’re still dwelling on the past and what could have been and it’s stopping you from giving other connections a chance because you keep comparing.