The more you struggle to keep secrets from your lover, the more it’s going to hurt you in the end. You might feel as if you simply must keep something to yourself because if you open up, your partner won’t approve. To be honest, this might be true — especially if you have done something that threatens the core of your relationship. None of us are perfect. At the same time, however, if you refuse to take responsibility for something you’ve said or done, or if you try to bury the situation altogether, you’re only cheating yourself out of personal integrity. Ultimately, that approach will cheat you out of love.
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