Aquarius – If You Want To Find “The One” Unlearn This Love Lesson

Unlearn that settling down is stifling.

Aquarius, you aren’t like the other Zodiac signs; you’re different. Eccentric. An out-of-the-box thinker, you not only question the status quo but resist it. While this progressive line of thinking is by no means a bad thing, it can get you into a bit of trouble when it comes to finding a relationship.

Given your unconventional ways, falling in love feels a little too mainstream for your liking. It also sounds like an opportunity to be controlled. Freedom is everything to you, so going as far as making a Friday night dinner date reservation makes you squirm. Committing to someone long-term, then, is even scarier for you.

The right person won’t want to control you. Yes, they will want to spend time with you, but they also will deeply appreciate your need for space. You can still be your own person in a relationship, Aquarius. In fact, within a relationship, there are three components: you, your partner, and the relationship itself. All three need to function individually to flourish as a unit.

This is all to say: Settling down with someone else won’t make you lose yourself. In fact, it might just show you exactly who you are, and have always been.