Aquarius Woman: In Love & Sex Life

Aquarian women radiate a cold glamour, like the cool, faint glow from a distant star. Though they might be sitting right next to you, there’s a sense that their souls are thousands of light years away, so removed as they often are from matters of the heart.

It’s not that they can’t be warm, sensual, and engaged lovers – more often than not they are, especially at first. But what they really fall in love with is a conceptual relationship, often becoming completely caught up in plans for the future instead of really investigating how they feel about their relationship in the present moment.

Aquarius women may invest energy in long-distance courtships, with lots of letter-writing back and forth and countless fevered texts in the wee hours. But their ardor may sink to a simmer after the heated boil of anticipation wears away. Daily routine and the sometimes dull realities of partnership – especially a domestic one – will often cast a chilly air over the Aquarian woman’s formerly steamy libido. It’s usually best for her to have her own space, or at least a room to call her own, away from her beloved. This is an extremely independent woman, who rarely likes to be pinned down to one place for too long.

Communication is important to those born under the sign of the Water Bearer, ruled by Uranus, especially electronic transmissions, which she may prefer. A powerful intellect is a majorly exciting trait for all Aquarians, who self-identify as “sapiosexual” (or, aroused by intelligence). You’ve got to be able to turn a phrase if you want to turn her on, so brush off your dictionary and thesaurus and get to flirting.

These women are rarely boring or vanilla when it comes to sex, so if you’re into trying new things, you’ve likely found a willing partner in your Aquarian babe.