Capricorn – If You Want To Find “The One” Unlearn This Love Lesson

Unlearn that the relationships that didn’t last were a waste of time.

Capricorn, you are all about your checkboxes, aren’t you? You have your morning to-do list, your weekly to-do list, your month-at-a-glance to-do list, and your life goals to achieve before age 30 or else your life will be a failure to-do list.

You treat your romantic endeavors the same way, as a series of tasks and milestones that must be checked off. You tend to approach dates more like job interviews, carefully sussing out whether the other person is long-term relationship material or someone to send that “Nice to meet you” text later that evening.

You behave this way because you believe failed relationships were a waste of time. It means you have to move “get married by 25” goalpost further and then your whole life plan is screwed. What’s the point in falling in love if you just have to start over? What would that do for your self-imposed life metrics?

Here’s something to consider, Capricorn: Just because something ends doesn’t mean it didn’t matter. After all, did you ever think that maybe your reroutes were part of the path all along? That maybe that bad Hinge date took you one step closer to finding the real thing in a few months? Or the person who broke your heart in college taught you how to love in the first place?